So of all the places in the world to find some inspiration on love i found some on a dry erase board in a sub shop called Zuke's in Plattsburgh, NY. Now I'm pretty sure that this came from somewhere but it just said:

If your not ready to make a fool of yourself,
Then your not ready for love.

I honestly do not have the slightest why that struck me...but that very same day i get home and there is this IM from christina that said:

pop quiz...if you could would you say in front of a large group of people (200) that you loved me? who example, some asked if there were any love birds out in audience...would you say yes or not saying anything at all?
next question: would then dance to a slow song in front of those people as they sat in there seats?

and the only thing i could think of was that qoute on the board. It really was a resounding yes...i kind of find it difficult to keep my mouth shut about that girl sometimes....well heck...not even sometimes...most of the time...but anyway....life truly is strange....and grand...all at the excat same instant...